Sex Surrogate Partner

Sex Surrogacy

is the Modality of

somatic therapy

Sex Surrogate Partner is a modality of somatic therapy that helps a client overcome relational and sexual challenges through hands-on intimacy practice.

The surrogate partner helps the client become more comfortable with sex, their body, and/ or the emotional and physical skills they need for intimacy.

This is a commitment to participate in a course of 4 sessions of 4 hours within 6 months where we will determine your goals and create a treatment plan to address your issues.

Alternatively, if you need an intensive setup to facilitate rapid growth and change in a short time we can arrange that to happen within 2 weeks.

Through this program we will explore, build your skills, and promote your healing.

The program may include:

Relaxation and meditation
Eye contact
Effective communication
Sensate focusing
Sex education
Body mapping

One-way or mutual nudity
One-way or mutual touching
Genital-genital contact
Tantra Practices
Tantra Massages

This service is not for married man. If you are married in a sexless marriage go to Sexual Healing to learn how I can help you.

My areas of

Expertise

Areas of expertise that I can help you with

lack of experience
lack of self-confidence or sexual confidence
phobias, avoidance, or anxieties about touch, sex, and intimacy
learning healthy consent practice
letting go of sex-shaming religious and cultural narratives
learning how to achieve orgasm
leaning how to delay orgasm or maintain arousal for longer
low arousal or sex drive
sexual dysfunction, including erectile dysfunction, erection difficulties, and premature ejaculation
recovering from sexual, physical or emotional abuse and trauma
overcoming dependency on porn (aka ‘porn addiction’)
unresolved relational trauma
exploring one’s sexual or gender identity
exploring sexual intimacy with a disability

exploring one’s body and sexuality after a significant change (e.g. surgery, a physical accident, a breakup or divorce), losing a loved one, receiving a positive STI result)
overcoming social anxiety, particularly in dating and relationships

Frequently asked

Questions

How long Sex Surrogate Partner take?

There is no predetermined length to the surrogate partner process — each journey is as unique as the person taking it. We will have regular check-ins on your goals and progress throughout the work, and we will decide together when you are ready to end our meetings.

A course of 4 sessions of 4 hours is recommended to start with and then we can discuss the results achieved so far.

How much cost Sex Surrogate Partner?

Initial Consultation: €150 90 minutes. This can be done on line or in person.

Four Sessions of 4 hours. Each session is €650

Paid in advance €2275

What does a typical surrogate partner session look like?

Each session looks different for every client. We will co create, use the offers on my website and anything to fit your needs and desires.

What isn’t Sex Surrogate Partner?

It is not:

Indefinite: I will never be your actual girlfriend — I’m like a cute sidekick who helps you learn the skills you need so you can then take them out into the world and blow everyone away with your awesomeness

All about sex: It’s about relationships, communication, self-awareness, and slowing down. After a few months, my clients typically see changes in all their relationships — family, friends, coworkers — not just romantic ones.

Quick and easy: Surrogate partner therapy takes some real personal work and can touch on some of our deepest wounds.

Prostitution: Sex workers focus only on giving sexual gratification to a client. But a surrogate partner’s goal isn’t around sexual satisfaction or stimulation – I aim to help you to overcome troubles you have around sex and intimacy, whether its physical, social, or emotional. In some cases, there is no need of physical contact with client.

Are you ready to start your healing with