Will you be naked during a massage?
I am a naturist person which means I am very comfortable in being naked. However, I am not there as a sexual object. If for some reason I feel uncomfortable with the energy in the room I will wear a sarong otherwise I will be nude.
Can I touch you?
My sessions are for you to connect with the energy in your own body, if you start to look around an touch you will be disconnected with your own experience and will be spoiling your session. I personally don’t like to be touched by someone that hasn’t been trained to touch in a tantric way. You are welcome to start to learn with me, booking a ‘Game of Consent and Boundaries’ session and ‘How to give a Tantra Massage’ session.
I love sex, can I have sex with you?
No. I don’t offer sex penetrative or oral sex.
Will you dress up for me (or wear my favourite underwear)?
No. My sessions are not to fullfill your fantasies neither for you to look at me as a sexual object. I choose my attire to honour my own choices for that day.
What type of oil do you use? Does it smell?
I use warm pure coconut oil that doesn’t smell and doesn’t sticky. You are welcome to have a shower or to wipe the oil with a towel after the massage.
Can I ejaculate/Climax?
If during the session, your body moves towards release organically as a response to what you are receiving then ejaculation (in men) or climax (in women) is welcomed as a beautiful form of expression and an offering of power/energy into the world. If, however, I sense that the mind is driving the pressure to ejaculate/climax I won’t encourage that. Your body and energy are given precedence over the mind. If by the end of the session you haven’t had a release in the form of ejaculation/climax I will teach you a breathing technique or other strategy to support the body in softening and the retainment of your sexual energy within you. I do not force ejaculation to happen as this is opposite what tantra really is.
What should I do during the massage?
During a Tantra massage session I encourage you to relax and surrender into purely receiving; to be present with your breath and the sensations in your body in order to create a full-body energetic experience. Breath as much as you want. I do offer a whole session on How to receive a Tantra Massage if you want to learn more.
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